Does Your Life Feel Good or Just Looks Good?
- Zaakira Dion Troyer
- Apr 30
- 2 min read
I have a cousin that I haven't seen in over 8 years, ask me a strange question and even though this was years ago.
I still can’t get this out of my head…
She asked, “So cuz, is your life really as good as it looks on facebook? Because you know, it’s the highlight reel so I just wanted to know if it is true”.
I was so puzzled by this, so I just said “Yes it's really like that.” and left it alone.
But I’m an overthinker so of course after the party. I just kept replaying her question.
And the truth of it is.
Yes. I share the international trips, romantic surprises, and whatever material “success” I have achieved.
But I don’t even post the things that really matter.
The peace and happiness in our home.
The great relationship I have with my family.
The funny and insightful conversations I have with my friends.
Or the freedom of getting to wake up everyday and truly do whatever I want…
So, to answer my cousin's question...
Yes, it is BETTER than it seems online.
Here’s what I want you to get from this conversation:
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CHOOSE
Just because some people choose to live a life that is only surface level: very shallow, empty, and lonely, doesn’t mean that’s the ONLY choice.
Choosing a fulfilling life doesn’t mean you have to be so modest and so humble that you sacrifice beauty or nice things.
Be the type of woman that gets to live in a world of both!
You can create a life that not only looks good but also feels good to you!
In my Vision Board Masterclass, I show you the first, most important step I used to create a life that is so good that it has my cousin wondering if it’s real.
Checking Your Intentions:
When I want something I ask myself.
If I couldn’t post or tell anyone about _________, would I still want it?
If the answer is Yes.
That means it’s truly aligned with who I see myself as and is probably something I should focus on experiencing!
When you do things because it excites you, you love it, or you know it's going to lead to your ultimate goals, that’s where the magic is! And that’s what makes a truly beautiful and fulfilling life.
