Where I’ve been 🤭

Trigger Warning: Grief, miscarriage, pregnancy is discussed in this blog

Hey boo!! I am back! I was kinda hiding and kinda resting! lol But either way I am back and feeling MUCH BETTER! I am 14 weeks pregnant and honestly the first trimester kicked my ass!! And I am still adjusting to my whole routine and lifestyle being shaken up, so bear with me sis!

I like structure but I also like to chill so I didn’t think being pregnant would be hard because I get to just chill at the house, right? WRONG 

I didn’t realize I was a “busy body” until not being able to do ANYTHING but focus on taking my vitamins, drinking water and fighting the urge to throw up. 

On top of, not wanting to announce the pregnancy too soon because I had a miscarriage last year.

But I decided to say f*ck it! Imma tell y’all because I love talking with you and sharing what I am learning and up to and not blogging about whatever I want was honestly making me more depressed so I’m back!!!

Here’s what I need from you though. 

If you love me please for the love of God DO NOT ASK ME ABOUT THE PREGNANCY.

Just ask how am I doing.

Because the HARDEST part about having a miscarriage last year was people asking:

”How’s baby?”

”How do you have abs and your pregnant?”

”Where is the baby hiding?”

Etc

All of this would just cause the grief to rush back in all over again so please a simple “how are you?” will suffice.

I’m looking forward to seeing what this next adventure holds and I’m so happy to be back writing!